Friday, October 5, 2012

How to Seduce your Guy in 31 Days [Day 5]


Sometimes the experts know what they are talking about. Would you agree?

From self-help books to online articles, you can find a wealth of information related to loving your spouse.
Of course, depending on your mindset, you can keep this particular completely on the G rating or you can go as far as Triple X. Wait... is that a movie? With Vin Diesel? Hmmm. Just checked, it is... but, it doesn't have Paul Walker, so I am not wasting time on it. I meant the other XXX...

Since I am trying to keep most of this series out of the bedroom (notice I said "most") - let's talk about general research on how to make your guy feel like your main squeeze.

There were some lists/sites that suggested that you (or me) as a wife may not be equal to her man. As if the wife isn't contributing just as much or more than the husband. For example... one list was 101 entries long that stated you should "keep the kids away from your husband during the first few minutes after he gets home from work." And "you should not bother your husband with anything for the first hour after he gets home from work." I could go on... obviously the author of that particular list did. But I won't. Instead, I am going to change it up a little.

In doing my research, I found a great online article that CLICKED for me.

Five Things Your Husband Wishes You'd Know, but Won't Tell You.
You can find the article in its entirety here, but here is the list in a nutshell, literally:






Some of those are abbreviated, so please go check out the full article by Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin. It's one I am going to keep bookmarked.

Lessons Learned:

1) Don't let the husband see this post for the following reasons:
  • He likes red-heads
  • He will realize that I get my "smarts" from other people
  • He may decide he needs some Pistachios for his snacking needs
2) Do your research... see what other people are doing.
3) Don't be scared to try out a few things you've read about. The worse that can happen is your hubby gives you a weird look and walks away. Which gives you time to watch America's Next Top Model without him complaining about you hogging the DVR.

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